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    Tuesday
    19Aug

    Can Your College Degree Make or Break You?

    by. J. Keri Ward

    What difference does it make ?


                                                                            


    Have you ever wondered how life would be if you had done it ? Or, hadn’t done it ? One of life’s age old questions...does my college education, or the lack thereof determine my lifestyle ? Hopefully, we can provide answers and clear up some myths of society within this story.

    Socioeconomic studies have been conducted for decades now by groups such as the American Educational Research Association, which after over hundreds of studies has concluded that the correlations aren’t as many have assumed. For us, this means all we need is a dream and good ole’ determination to live the lives we’ve dreamed about. Of course, this isn’t a green light for college students everywhere to drop out of school…it does however mean that if college isn’t for you, there’s still hope ! (I personally, value the well educated professionals of our society i.e: medical professionals, lawyers, educators, etc. so, DON’T QUIT !)

    Over time, studies have also revealed some of the other myths of our age are proven to be not-so-true. Ethnicity, sex, religion, orientation has absolutely nothing to do with what you can accomplish, or the places you can go in life. In such an advanced and progressive country as the U.S., there are millions of people making their mark in time while securing their financial future by simply finding their niche. You know… like Bill Gates did, or the Starbucks guy ! These are perfect examples of how you can take something you like, and believe in, and let your hobby make you filthy rich ! It happens all the time. Of course, it takes general knowledge of business, public relations, and finance to make it all work…that’s what advisors, accountants, and support staff are for!

    Do you remember those meetings with the guidance counselor at your high school about what you want to be when you “grow up” ? Then, they gave you that list of things you should focus on, classes you should take, and colleges you should apply for to make your dreams come true ? Oh, what memories…or was it as intimidating of a nightmare as it still sounds today ? Not necessarily for some. As we know, the median household income for the average holder of a bachelor’s degree is $65,922. While someone who holds a master’s degree earns an average of $ 77,935. Not too bad, eh ? The only down side to this however is that some students can borrow up to $ 100,000 to pay for a two-year program ! (Hey, all I can do is give the stats. You do your own math !) Competition is everything nowadays. It’s a painful truth, but where you obtained your degree, and the mere cost of seems to matter just as much as the fact that you have one.

    Of course we’ve all seen the charts, graphs, articles and stories about how much you should expect to earn with your college degree. These are usually broken down by field of study, and give a general idea of the salary you should expect. Surprisingly, with Liberal Arts bringing up the rear and a degree Chemical Engineering topping the list, no field of study on the list earned over $100,000. (this was based on my personal research and findings) So, my take on this is…no matter what type of degree you have, or where its from. What you do with your degree after you’ve obtained it is what separates the “haves” from the “have-nots”. This is where social skills and networking comes in handy people.

    In essence, this is my spin on the issue. The next time you pull up at the stop light and look at the Bentley Continental Flying Spur in the next lane, or pass by that huge “McMansion” in one of those ‘oh-so-exclusive’ communities. Instead of asking yourself how they did it, ask yourself what can you do to make it happen for you, if that’s where you’d like to be in life. Whatever you do, do it well. Believe in it. Put your heart into it. Strive for the best, and you’ll have it. If a top-notch education is in your future, start saving and filling out those student loan & scholarship applications ! If you prefer another route, start researching your options and get the ball rolling ! We only get one shot at this life, so why not make the best of it and do what makes us happy ?




    Tuesday
    19Aug

    Obvious Magazine - Women

    Photography: Jerris Madison for www.jerrismadison.com
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    Sunday
    10Aug

    Tune In

    By Marcus Scott

    Is Television Your Child's New At-home Parent?


    On average, every day tens of thousands of parents leave children home alone in an empty house to run errands, work, or attend social functions. According to the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry, an estimated 40 percent-plus children are left at home at some point in their lives.


    A 1944 NBC documentary during the Second World War, the term “Latchkey Kid” originated, referring to the house or apartment key around a child’s neck. When the war began, thousands of men enlisted into the army, as women found jobs to support their families, which initiated new found feminism in the wake industrialism. Since then, the number of kids left alone have nearly tripled. In fact, the State Department of Education estimated that some 600,000 to 800,000 children in California alone have been harmonized into the latchkey kid label.


    In a 2002 United States Census survey, 5.8 million (15 percent) of most children between ages five and 14 years old living with a single-parent mother, care for themselves an average of 6.3 hours per week. Sixty-five percent of these children spend 2 to 9 hours at home alone.

    Since its early beginnings as a system able to broadcast , transmit and receive shortwave 48-line images by the use of cathode ray tubes in 1928 to its first demostrations of eclectronic color, TV has become a different animal than it was half a century ago.Today, this simple box set is a pop culture messiah, with just as much influence as some of the oldest religions like that of Islam, Christianity and Judism.

    When kids are left alone at home without supervision, all they have to come home to is a television. Odds are they are most likely to neglect homework and reading, and go to the magical box set to play video games, watch music videos and cable or satellite. While some may argue that there is nothing wrong with televison, the American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry sites children in the US are estimated to watch 3 to 4 hours of television every day, having spent more time viewing TV than they have been in the classroom.

    While TV doesn’t pose a threat to some, it may have superpowers that may pose a threat to some children in the most opprobrious ways. Some critics have suggested that television has profound effects on alpha waves, but the waves are dimmished by drowsiness, sleep and with open eyes. Thought to represent activity of the visual cortex in a fain é ant state, alpha waves are a type of brain wave predominantly found to originate from the occipital lobe during periods of waking relaxation when the eyes are closed. During this time people, especially kids, are induced in a trance-like state and therefore become “zombies.” This may be the key to television addiction.

    The compulsion to watch television or television addiction has been studied over the years to which some arguments are accepted, while others are fait accompli. However, it’s a fact, kids are impressionable, and thus, can become co-dependents to the ideas reinforced by television. In the latest string of crimes committed by children left in homes alone with their siblings, some suggest that the extensive viewing of violence on television causes severe aggressiveness. Sometimes, the crimes are committed by viewing a single episode.

    Parents can help their kids but it requires much attention to what their kids purchase, download, what’s popular on television and of course, their listening and viewing patterns. Be active. Some television is not appropreciate for children, with some shows and film that even glamorize the abuse of drugs, violence and alcohol or advocate fornication and sex that focuses on control (BDSM, incest, devaluing women, rape, etc.). The outcome leaves children anesthetized to violence and to gradually accept it a solution to solve problems, or become copycats of what they view; it’s like being propagandized.

    Leaving children home alone with a television, often because of the cost of child care, is not the best alternative. Setting small and simple ground rules may lower risk of future dangers and may even increase your children’s attention to their studies.

    Here are 5 tips to help you and your children, even with a busy schedule:

    • Its okay to view what your kids are watching. This is a good way to find out what’s in and what’s out and to select developmentally appropriate shows.
    • Set limits on the amount of time your kids watch TV and the amount they spent with it. This is an excellent way to offset a reduction in your child’s studies.
    • Turn off the TV during family meals. If the game is on, and you’re worried about missing a moment, consider TiVo.
    • Refuse to let young children view violent or offensive material, and point out fact and fiction. If a character is hurt or killed, help your child come to the understanding that in real life, this type of violence ends in injury or death.
    • Disapprove of the violent material and stress that the acts seen on the silver screen are not how to resolve a problem.